Erotic Massage and The Pleasures Behind It

An Erotic massage provides all the benefits of regular massage, but unlike most forms of hands-on manipulation, it is meant to be a deeply sensual experience. Taking the best techniques from a wide range of massage styles and giving them a provocative and compelling twist, erotic massage helps couples to tap into their sensual natures. 

As the masseur, you will discover how to pleasure your partner, and as the recipient, you will learn to revel in your partner’s touch. Also, an erotic massage gives you the tools to explore your sexuality and connect physically and emotionally.

It simply involves engaging all your senses and using the activity to help you get in touch with your earthy, sexual nature. 


Erotic massage makes use of sexual energy to increase intimacy, prolong pleasure, heighten arousal, and intensify sexual fulfilment. It encourages individuals to freely express sexual desire, lust, fantasy, and passion. 

By promoting the flow of erotic energy throughout the body, this type of massage can also have healing effects. It certainly enables the recipient to enjoy deep relaxation and the blissful sensations of erotic touch. 

What is important is to experience a heightened awareness of each and every moment, and to respond intuitively and lovingly. Everything is explained clearly, but the book is a guide: add your own strokes as you feel you want to. 


You and your partner can enjoy erotic massage as an end in itself, not necessarily as a prelude to sex. The key is to make it clear to your partner that you are giving him or her a gift, without desire for a reward. 

Learn to derive joy from your partner’s body, and from the pleasure you give. Enjoy the moans and sighs you are able to provoke simply by using your hands, fingers, mouth, hair, and voice in different ways. 

The recipient is able to enjoy a feeling of freedom and intense relaxation, but there are advantages for the masseur, too. 

When you massage without an agenda or goal, the flow of energy becomes a cycle, passing between you and building up to a reciprocal exchange of pleasure. So, the ecstasy is mutual! 

Everyone has a unique response to massage so a masseur should never try to manipulate or “direct” the recipient into any particular reaction or experience. Erotic massage should be nourishing, loving, holistic, and empowering for both the giver and receiver. A sensual massage isn’t just about doing something fun and exciting with your partner, it’s also touching each other’s souls by doing something pleasurable, so make every moment special.


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